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Mother and Daughter

 The relations between a mother and daughter is supposed to be something that is precious and warm feeling and just pouring your heart to, without being judged or even stressed. It's like having a cat as a pet, they just absorb everything unsaid by you, and at the end makes your feel better.  But that isn't the case on this end. I enjoy talking to my mother, but I get extremely drained (not stressed) out after I have hung up. I wonder if it's something others have also felt, esp between a mother and daughter. (not referring to a son).  I see my community friends talking fondly to their moms, at least 3-4 times a day. I can't even imagine myself doing that, it's a BIG NO. I would go bonkers.  I see my good friends speaking so lovingly about the things they are buying for their mothers, but if I even buy anything for her, it's going to be said "oh I dont like this," "this should be like this", or "can you pls return and get me a size small...